Which Trends Are You Totally Sick Of?

trendsThere was a lot of interesting discussion on the weekend open thread about the wedge sneakers — it feels great to know I’m not the only one who isn’t totally on board with them. I thought today we might have a discussion about which trends we’re totally sick of, and which trends we’re actually liking/looking forward to. For my own $.02, here’s my list:

Sick Of:
- Leggings/skinny jeans (although a friend once argued they were staying because “people have spent way too much on boots,” which I agree with — but I’ll still be surprised if they stay.)
- Boxy blouses
- Crazy nails (pictured)
- Sequins for day
- Short suits (pictured)

Liking:
- Bold lip color
- Jewel tones
- Braids (pictured)
- Graphic prints
- Quilted details
- Lucite details on heels (pictured)

 So let’s hear it, ladies — what trends are you sick of?  Which ones are you liking?

‘Geek Chic’ Glasses and the Office

2013 Vanity Fair Oscar Party Hosted By Graydon Carter - ArrivalsCan you wear hipster/geek chic eyeglasses to the office — especially if you’re young?

I’m hoping for your input on a quandary I’m having. I’m starting my first real job this summer so trying to build an adult wardrobe now. I am nearsighted and strongly prefer glasses to contacts for everyday wear. I love my (only) current pair; they’re big and plastic and perfect for me. But can I pull off “geek chic” in a professional (though not very conservative) environment, especially as a 21 year-old intern?

As a fellow glasses wearer, I’m curious to hear what the readers say here.  I think that ‘geek chic’ glasses can be great — I’ve even recommended them to a reader who was wondering how to to make her look edgier.  However, there is a sliding scale with these things.  The wackier the glasses are, the more that people will remember (and form opinions about you) based on your glasses, at least at first.  In other words: if a particular boss thinks you look like a bit odd/hipster/weird/[insert negative word here], you are probably not going to get a lot of work with that person.  You may say, “fine, I wouldn’t want to work with someone that stodgy anyway!,” and an outward statement about your personality can be a great way to whittle down who you work with.  (Glasses are in a different ballpark than heavily tattooed arms, but you may want to check out that discussion as well.)    That said… you don’t want to be so limited that only a few people in the office want to work with you — so if your office is filled with more “stodgy” types than not, you need to exercise caution.  (And just in terms of style, I personally prefer not to have a certain pair of glasses be my trademark, but that’s just my $.02.)  (Pictured above: I was sort of surprised to see Jenna Lyons wear what I would classify as geek-chic eyeglasses to an Oscars party, but if they become your trademark look then I suppose it’s weirder not to wear them.)

So here would be my approach:  wear multiple pairs of glasses.  [Read more...]

The Red Dress at the Black Tie Event

1Can you wear a red dress to a professional black tie event?  Reader “Confused in VA” writes in, wondering:

Is it ok to wear a red gown to a professional black tie event? The event will be in the evening with dinner.

Hmmn.  We’ve talked about what not to wear to a black tie event, how to do black tie on a budget, and whether cocktail dresses are appropriate for black tie events — but never what colors are appropriate.  To be honest, my gut reaction here was “If you are the honoree or the hostess of the event, knock yourself out.  Otherwise, step away from the red dress.”  But after some Googling, it seems like a red dress is becoming more and more popular — even Tim Gunn says “absolutely” to bright colors at evening affairs.

Still, for my $.02, I would stick to dresses in muted colors for professional events — a dark plum or an emerald, or a navy — and leave brighter colors to details like your clutch, or your bag.  [Read more...]

Business Casual — Without Being Overdressed

someecards.com - Are sleeping bags business casual? How do younger women do “business casual” in a male-dominated environment — without ending up looking like the mom (or younger sister) of the group?  Reader S asks:

I have a question about work attire: is it possible to be “over-dressed” for work? Without getting in to too much detail, I work for a medium sized engineering firm as an engineer. I am the only female engineer in my group so it’s really hard for me to gauge what would be deemed appropriate work attire for my office. Most of the men dress business casual (as in jeans, or khakis at best, and a polo shirt- even on client meeting days) during the weekdays, with casual Fridays being jeans and a t-shirt. I usually wear dress pants, and an appropriate top; Fridays I wear jeans and an appropriate top. Am I overdressed? The only other person who wears dress pants is the group manager. I should mention I’m only 3 years in to my career.

I can totally see this being a problem. The guys are wearing jeans and polos and look like regular workers — meanwhile, if you wear jeans and a t-shirt you end up looking like their scrappy younger sister, and if you wear trousers and a nice top you look like the mom of the group.  We’ve covered whether you can dress “too nice” for work, and also how to transition to business casual from a more conservative environment, but I don’t think we’ve really talked about this exact question.

For my two cents, here are a few tips — I’m really curious to hear what the readers have to say on this one, though. [Read more...]

The Professional White Shirt (That Isn’t a Blouse or a T-Shirt)

How can you find basic, solid shirts that are just a teensy bit different and easy to care for — particularly in simple colors like black and white? Reader S wonders…

You’ve done lots of reviews about what shirts to wear to work (I love “The Hunt”), but I cannot find anything directly addressing the topic white shirts. What white shirts do people wear to work? I’m not thinking of button-down blouses. I’m talking about white short sleeve or long sleeve pieces that are not too sheer, launder well, look a little more interesting than totally boring. I’d love to see a round up and hear readers’ thoughts. I have one nice one from XCVI, but am looking for a new one and want some ideas.

We actually have done Hunts for white blouses before, but I thought this would be an interesting discussion because I totally know what Reader S is getting at: that basic shirt that isn’t a t-shirt, isn’t a button-down, is just a little bit different, and ends up being a total workhorse in your wardrobe. Honestly, I celebrate whenever I find one (and try to post it if I can!) because I think these really are huge saviors in women’s wardrobes. But: they’re almost impossible to find in an online search. Here’s the best tips that I can give:

- Know the brands that have done “fancy/simple tops” that you’ve liked in the past, and then use an online tool like Shopstyle (type in the brand name, then sort by “tops”) to see the offerings — a quick search on a few brands turned up a lot of possibly great tops, depending on your office and personal style. For example quick searches on some of the brands I’ve had in the past turned up: Alice + Olivia (see here and here), Ann Taylor (see here and here), Rafaella (see this top and this top), and Design History (nothing in white, but see here and here for options in black). Reader S mentions the brand XCVI; that turned up a few quick candidates as well (see here and here). [Read more...]

How Often Can You Repeat Your Outfits at Work?

1Can you wear the same outfit over and over again to work? How often can you rewear an outfit? Reader N wonders…

Do you have any tips about how often you can wear the same outfit to work? Or posts on outfit frequency? I tried to search in the archives but couldn’t find anything.

This is a great question, and one we haven’t talked about before. A friend of mine was just describing a former coworker who wore the exact same outfit (dress, tights, shoes, jewelry) multiple days in a row — and how no one could figure out what her deal was (but everyone was wondering!). So: don’t be that coworker!

Personally I think you can repeat the exact same outfit, but the more memorable it is, the less often you can repeat it. [Read more...]