Poll: When Wearing a Collared Shirt and Blazer, Does the Collar Go Out or In?

We’ve been curious about this for a while — ever since we advised that a collared shirt should always stay IN if you’re wearing a suit, and numerous readers wrote to say that they had always been advised (by various career counselors) to wear their collars out. So we thought we’d take a poll.

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For our $.02 — which purely comes from observation, as we have never heard a “rule” on it — a tucked-in collar looks better with a suit. More fashionable women tend to do it (Angelina, Madonna) when wearing a suit; and it gives them a neat, sharp look. It also puts the emphasis in the desired place, as our eyes are drawn to their face, not their clavicle or shoulders. We suppose it’s possible that there are greater rules here that we’re not aware of, for example dealing with fabric (cotton goes in, silk goes out) or the type of collar or lapel. Perhaps it’s a regional rule — e.g., in DC, collars go out with suits; in Hollywood, collars go in with suits. Either way, we thought we’d start a dialog…

Readers, what say you? Please comment, particularly if you choose #3…

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  1. Personally, I strongly favor the collar out for women. When I see a collar in, it just looks to me like it’s itching to get out. Even in that picture of Madonna you posted — to me, it just looks weird. I’m not sure why it looks so weird to me, since most people seem to think the opposite, but there you go.

  2. I feel like the collar-out look is very late 90s/early 2000s. (and I work in DC.) that’s a pretty old photo of Nancy Pelosi, isn’t it?

  3. Anonymous :

    Oh my gosh I’ve never even considered this before.

    I’ve been wearing my collars out all the time and people must think I’m a weirdo.

    Thanks for raising my awareness of this issue!

  4. Not a fan of Pelosi in anything she does….so i’ll have to say in!

  5. In obviously goes for men (with their stiff collars), but for women, in just doesn’t sit as well most of the time.

  6. I like the collar out. I think it looks nice. I also sometimes wear my collar in, if I’ve got a very fitted jacket or a large collar. I think it’s a choice…like…what buttons to button up on your shirt (all of them, one undone, 2 undone, 3 undone).

  7. So glad you brought this up – a pet peeve. I think having the collar out looks dated. I also think it looks awful… (just my opinion) but I don’t think I’ve ever seen it and thought “That looks good.” I think tucking the collar in is much more modern and less sloppy looking. It doesn’t scream 90’s power woman with something to prove. Collar in all the way!

  8. I think it’s a generational thing to be honest – most women in their 20s and 30s seem to keep the collar in, while older professional women seem to have the collar out. IMO, I prefer the in look – it’s cleaner, and less likely to have malfunctions. And FWIW, having worked in NYC and now in DC, it seems that the generational thing stands in both cities.

  9. I 100% agree with Nicole– collar out looks very dated. Collar in presents a much more modern, fashion-forward look. I twitch every time I see an otherwise chic fellow attorney with her collar out. It’s right up there with nude hose and clunky heels as my pet peeves when it comes to fashion-for-professionals.

  10. I think having the collar out makes someone (who could pass for it) look like an undergrad on her first job interview. Maybe that’s because I’m [almost] 27 and never see women over about 40 with their collars out? (Contrary to City Girl’s experience) I think out looks messy, requires a lot of work, and just sort of seems like the styling on an Express model, not a professional.

  11. out is (usually) dated.

  12. I think if you’re someone who can manage to fold your collar out neatly and keep it looking neat all day, out is fine. I’m not one of those people; I wear it in.

  13. I think it may be regional. To be honest it never occurred to me that people would consciously keep their collars tucked and I can probably count on one hand the number of times I’ve noticed collars in on women. That said I’m in the San Francisco office of an international law firm and we keep things relatively casual when the big bosses aren’t around, so there isn’t that much of an opportunity to observe collared shirts with suits.

  14. i was going to say ‘in’; but looking at the pictures you posted changed my mind to ‘it depends’. pelosi looks way more professional with her collar out than madonna with her collar in.

  15. ‘in’ is hip + young

    ‘out’ definitely makes me think ‘grandma’

  16. This is fantastic! I think the collar in is the way to go, but I’ve been told to wear it out and I always feel guilty when I wear it in. The person who told me to wear it out says that in looks manly. Now I don’t have to feel guilty anymore when I wear a collar the way that looks right…in!

  17. Wearing a collar out is soooooo old-fashioned. It makes the wearer look like they have no fashion sense whatsoever. Every time I see a woman with the collar out, she’s usually pairing that ridiculous look with some ugly shoes and an ill-fitting suit.

    I’m a young lawyer in DC, and collars out are way out.

  18. tinylawyer :

    Yikes! I wear my collars out and didn’t know I was being viewed as committing a fashion faux pas. I wear it out because I think it looks better on me — less fabric close to my neck, so my neck doesn’t disappear and make me look like Mr. Potatohead. I like the look of the collar in, but not on me.

    Most of the time I avoid this dilemma by wearing a scoop neck, rather than a collared shirt, under a suit jacket.

  19. I’ve heard collar in described as the European style and collar out described as the American style. I used to struggle with this a lot because if your collar is out, it has to be pressed perfectly but when I would try to wear it in (which I always considered more stylish, at least in the abstract) it never seemed to lay right either. My solution: don’t wear collared shirts.

  20. I wear it out because that is the only way my button up shirts will stay put. If I try to wear it in, it moves around under my jacket in weird ways, and ends up looking really sloppy. I suppose a whole lot of starch could fix that, but then I would never want to wear the shirt.

    Most of the other young women who work in the courthouse with me seem to wear it out as well.

    Mostly though, I’m very surprised that people have such strong opinions about this issue.

  21. Pelosi looks more professional than Madonna b/c she’s trying to look more professional–not b/c of the collar.

  22. Delta Sierra :

    When there is such a diversity of opinion, it invariably means there’s no consensus and people can suit themselves. So let’s all cut each other some slack and say that either way is fine.

    Unless it’s a button-down (such a pain to iron) collar, I start out the day being an Innie. Then, despite much oh-so-casual collar-smoothing, I gradually become a bilateral In ‘n’ Outer. Once I’m really wrapped up in my work, I often end the day as an Outie.

  23. No one said this so far: Avoid the conundrum completely and wear a round-neck blouse/shirt/sweater under your suit. That’s what I’ve been doing for years. I think “out” looks dated and “in” looks messy. No collars for me!

  24. The only way I would consider “out” to look ok is if the collar does not extend past, or conflict with the shape of the jacket lapels. Large collars that stick way out past lapels look goofy – it makes me think of the suit my dad wore to my parents’ very 70s wedding.

  25. I always wore it IN before 2L year of law school. Then, when job interviews started for my class, I saw a lot of girls wearing their collars out. So I started doing that. (I worked as a summer associate in DC.) I kind of agree with what someone said about “in” looking mannish. I can definitely see “out” looking more feminine. I also think that it is a generational thing. But I guess it depends on how you want to look.

    Either way, I think that judging someone because her collar is out or in (whichever way you don’t wear it) is kind of harsh. Clearly, women wear it both ways, so it’s not completely inconceivable that a fashionable woman would wear it one way or the other. I don’t think wearing a collar out is a “faux pas.”

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