Poll: Are very high heels inappropriate for work?

L.A.M.B. - Juva (Black Multi) - Footwear
We haven’t taken a poll on this in a while, but gauging by recent comments we should. Here’s the question: are 3″ heels appropriate for work? (Pictured:  L.A.M.B. – Juva (Black Multi) – Footwear, available at Zappos Couture for $353. (They’re 4″.))

Opinions tend to run the gamut on this one, as we know from personal experience as well as from previous posts. For some women, anything over 2″ isn’t doable — too hard to walk in a graceful way, too hard to run down the hall when you hear your phone ringing, too hard to walk while carrying a box of documents — plus, a lot of folks tend to think of very high heels as “going out” shoes (when put politely) or “stripper shoes” (when put impolitely). For other women, anything below 3″ is dowdy and matronly, and ultimately not grown-up enough for the office.  For our $.02, we try to keep our heels at 3″ or under (but even then, a lot of our shoes live at the office and don’t actually see city streets).

Readers, what are your thoughts?

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Comments

  1. @#$@#$ — we hate when we have a typo in a poll. (It isn’t fixable after it’s live, unless we reset the votes.) For the record, we meant that even Cole Haan shoes HAVE a 3.5″ heel.

  2. I’m very short–5’0″, so I wear (and would like to think get away with) higher heels in professional settings. I think the taller a woman is, the more difficult it is to pull off a 3.5″ or 4″ heel at work.

  3. I think it depends on the outfit and on a person’s height, especially if you’re wearing long slacks. Some pants just don’t look right after they’ve been tailored.

  4. I voted that “it depends.”

    My go-to black pumps are 3″ and I wore them more days than not last year. They were perfectly comfortable. I loved them.

    Then I sprained my ankle this spring. Now, even more than 3 months later, I can’t wear anything over about 2.5″ without pain in that ankle. When I try to wear my old black pumps, I find myself favoring the ankle and hobbling a little bit.

    I don’t think that 3″ heels are inappropriate in the office overall. I do think that they are inappropriate for ME — at least until my ankle is back to 100%.

    The usual concerns apply, too, obviously. 3.5″ Cole Haans are not the same as 3.5″ clear-heeled platforms.

    • Sorry about your ankle. I severly sprained my 6 or 7 years ago and still can’t wear 3″ heels. All my work heels are now between 1.5″ and 2.5″. And I still need to alternate between heels and flats or my ankle will swell and hurt.

      Maybe my shoes are matronly and dowdy, but sometimes comfort comes before fashion.

      • Miss Dimples :

        Re: sprained ankle – it happened to me and I went to see why I couldn’t wear any of my heels without pain or swelling. Turns out I had a hairline fracture, not a sprain, that healed on it’s on and caused scar tissue. 3 months of physical therapy on the ankle broke through the tissue and I’ve been in my heels ever since! :-)

  5. Jennifer C. :

    I second DSD’s “it depends” with a reference to pants — with long or wide-legged pants, I think a 3″ plus could look fine. Also, I think some shoes with 3″ heels don’t really look that high. Cole Haans were specifically mentioned, and some of those shoes have thicker, sturdier looks that can pull off a professional look even at a high height.

  6. I have an 80-something year old female relation who wore very high heels all her working life. She is now using a walker because her feet are a mess, I mean they don’t even look foot-shaped any more. Another elderly friend wore moderate heels almost always and her feet are fine, she walks for miles in regular sneakers or sandals.

    Just so you know.

  7. I try to keep my office heels to around 3″. It’s not easy to find stylish, appropriate heels below that height, and any higher than 3″ and I get a bit wobbly.

    I’d like to comment on the other comments re: height – I don’t think there’s anything unprofessional about tall women wearing heels. I’m 5’10″, and I’m not going to wear flats every day just because some people are uncomfortable with a woman being over 6′ tall. I’m tall. That’s life.

    • Being only 5’2″, I can’t personally relate to your situation. But I personally think there’s something really awesome and amazon-goddess-like when a tall woman rocks high heels.

  8. I voted it depends, because:
    - 3 inch heels with pants look professional
    - i have seen women pull off 3 inch heels with a skirt suit and look 100% appropriate at conservative jobs
    - many women can walk in 3 inch heels all day with no pain (i am not one of them)
    - at my old job (conservative in-house) 3 inch heels would have been fine, but at my current conservative law firm, I do not think they would be a good idea
    - one’s height and other’s heights are a consideration (I am almost 5’10″ and even if I could walk in 3 inch heels I would not want to be taller than all the male partners i work for)

    So yes, it depends, but at the end of the day, after having hurt my knees wearing 3 inch heels every day, and finding it increasingly hard to walk in them, I just do no find them worth it. I also am seeing an increasing number of women develop foot problems from regular wearings of 3 and 4 inch heels, so that’s another reason i tend to not buy such high heels much.

  9. This brings up a question for me, that you may have already answered (apologies if so) – what do you wear to and from the office if you leave your high heels there? I have been searching in vain for months for a pretty but comfortable black flat to wear on a commute – something with the comfort of a Keen’s but a little more sophisticated. Can anyone name some brands that might do the trick? THANK YOU!!

    • I think the style of the shoe makes more of a difference than the heel height. For instance, I find that booties tend to look fairly unprofessional regardless of the heel height, especially when paired with a skirt. I don’t get booties at all and can’t imagine them being worn in a corporate environment, especially booties with peep toes. I also think that high stilettos tend to look inappropriate as do shoes with a higher platform.

      Jane- with regards to good commute shoes, I’ve worn Privo (Clarks) or Puma ballet flats. They still look a bit athletic, but I think they’re daintier and more sophisticated than Keen. I work in an area where we get a lot of flooding, so I can’t really wear commute shoes that could be ruined in the rain.

    • If I’m wearing a skirt, I often commute in ballet flats. Repetto are the most comfortable (they are actually ballet slippers) but hard to find. I’ve also used Tory Burch and Kate Spade ballet flats to commute in–both are very stylish and comfortable. If I’m wearing pants, I just suck it up and wear heels to work, taking a different route to work that involves more walking but fewer hills than my usual one.

    • There are some amazing black flats on sale at Target right now. They’re $12.99, buy one get one 1/2 off, and if you spend $50 you get free shipping. I’m wearing a pair at this very moment and they are comfortable.

      http://www.target.com/gp/detail.html/ref=huc_svd_1_txt/182-6216163-0274830?ie=UTF8&ASIN=B001HXF3B0&nodeID=&merchantID=A1VC38T7YXB528

      • Absolutely second you on the Target flats. I found them a couple months ago in-store and bought them in bronze. I went back and bought them in black and then again in purple! They’re as comfortable as slippers. Love ‘em!

  10. With pants and skirts around the knee you look fine. The higher the skirt, the more you slide into inappropriateness.

  11. Elizabeth :

    I answered ‘it depends’. I think wearing 3″ inch heels has a lot to do with how you wear them. If your walk changes when you’re wearing 3″ heels, you probably don’t know how to walk in them properly and that’s going to be obvious. You also need to pay attention to what you’re wearing with them. Pants? great. Skirt? If it’s too short and you’re wearing nothing on your legs, it’s probably going to be a bit too much.

  12. I think it depends on the shape of the shoe itself (and the details). I’d wear a classic pump or peeptoe (or even a wedge) at 4″– and I’m 5’8. However, I wouldn’t wear a 4″ heel that’s blinged-out, has a lot of buckles or studs, or a really non-traditional cut.

  13. Also, Jane– I am a new convert to a pair of Cole Haan flats with the Nike Air technology. They feel like sneakers, but look super cute. I got them a few weeks ago and have been wearing them all. the. time., including on my 40 minute walk to & from work.

  14. Re: heels on tall women. Quite the contrary, I think you DO want to be taller than the male partners if you can. I am tall even without heels, and I have no doubt my physical presence is helpful with colleagues and opponents.

    • Amen. I have found my height (5’10″) and corresponding size (size 12 up) to be an asset, not a liability. My overall presence has reduced the sexism I might have experienced as a 1984 law graduate.
      I have often thought that the ratio of leg length to heel height was important. If your legs are too short relative to your heels, you goose step and look like you are on stilts.

    • Me too. I am 5’8″ and wear heels ranging from 2.5-3 inches (not taller; I have a 10 minute walk on my commute) on purpose because I like to be taller than the male partners for whom I work.

      • operaghost :

        I’m 5’11″ and I LOVE wearing tall heels. The best is when I show up to court to argue something and tower over the opposing counsel. :)

  15. I second the danger to one’s feet done by heels. My personal choice is to wear kitten heels/flats as much as possible with higher heels only on days when I know I’ll be sitting more than normal. But I think with the appropriate platform (subtle, but makes the heel feel a lot shorter), higher heels are perfectly acceptable. But pants are almost always a must!

  16. I also voted “it depends.”

    When I was practicing law full time, I would max out at 4″ heels when covered by pants or 3″ when worn with a skirt. Now that I’m in a more creative field, I rock tasteful 6″ heels (with long pants) on occasion.

    Along with the usual concerns — tastefulness, appropriateness based on ensemble — I think it’s also important that you are able to walk gracefully in your heels. There’s nothing worse than watching a woman teeter and shuffle because she doesn’t have the balance to walk in the heels she’s trying to wear. Inability to walk gracefully in heels can make any professional woman (in any height heels) look like she’s playing dress up in mom’s “big girl” clothes.

  17. Anne Vohl :

    I have occasionally worn very high heels to work with a classic, long-sleeved silk shirt-dress, and with appropriate hose, and I think I looked great!

  18. 3 inches is the upper limit

  19. I have a couple of comfortable, stylish 3” shoes which are office-appropriate, but the idea that a woman has to wear high heels to be grown-up is more uncomfortable than my 6” stilettos.

    Surely a nice shoe with a 1” heel or perhaps – gasp! – a flat heel isn’t a shoe waiting to graduate?

    And surely men don’t look girlish in their flats? (Though Sarkozy has a few pairs higher than the boots I bought today…)

  20. i answered “it depends” – some women can walk in 4″ stilettos like they were born in them. And hopefully there are some (other!) women like me who grew up wearing nothing but tennis shoes and can’t last all day in 2″ heels. I stick to cute flats or kitten heels so that I’m not walking bow-legged at the end of the day, which strikes me as far more inappropriate than my preferred shoe choice.

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