Weekend Open Thread
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Oooh: these Reiss pants (and many other things!) are back in stock at the Nordstrom Anniversary Sale, so if you missed out when you looked previously, it may be worth taking another look.
(I don't think I mentioned it in our big roundup, but this bra and these panties are always the top sellers among Corporette readers — closely followed by this bra. People are also snapping up these scrunchies and this $30 throw blanket, which would make a great gift.)
What have you guys gotten and loved from this year's Nordstrom Anniversary Sale?
Sales of note for 7/25/25:
- Nordstrom – The Anniversary Sale is open for everyone — here's our roundup!
- Ann Taylor – 25% off your purchase, including new arrivals + up to 60% off sale
- Banana Republic Factory – Up to 50% off everything + extra 20% off
- Boden – 10% off new womenswear with code
- Eloquii – $19+ select styles + extra 45% off all sale
- J.Crew – Up to 40% off select cashmere + up to 50% off summer styles + up to 70% off all sale styles
- J.Crew Factory – Extra 60% off cashmere + extra 15% off $100+ and extra 20% off $125+
- M.M.LaFleur – Daily flash sales — on 7/25 it's 25% off dresses! Try code CORPORETTE15 for 15% off
- Rothy's – Final Few: up to 50% off
- Spanx – Free shipping on everything
- Talbots – Extra 60% off marked down pants, jeans, shorts and more, and extra 50% off all other markdowns
interviewing for a job where everyone wears moderately priced not trendy work clothes (like calvin klein suits from macys) is there some magic place to buy work clothes that meet that level of formality and price point but that are a little hipper?
J Crew workwear has improved recently, is more trendy, and is cheap if you can find a sale from which it isn’t excluded. I was surprised to find some good linen trousers there, and when she was pinning them my tailor remarked that she’s seen a lot of decent items from the brand in the past few months.
I would save up to splurge on fancier blazers on sale. L’Agence and Cinq a Sept are trendy. You can pair them with cheaper pants and tops.
Iām assuming you are trying to blend in and not just looking to figure out how to buy more expensive clothes for the same price as a CK suit from Macyās. If thatās the case, I would look at brands like Tahari ASL and CK but at places that are a little āfancierā like Nordstrom and Bloomingdaleās where they have more classic styles. Plenty right now in the NAS. BR can sometimes work too.
If youāre just looking for classic suits that are less frumpy, look at Theory, Club Monaco, and JCrew.
Thredup has a lot of workwear.
Plus at a ‘Calvin Klein’ price point you can get really nice stuff on thread up like akris and max mara
i think she means CK Calvin Klein, not the design Calvin Klein. like a suit for $150.
I think J. Crew is pretty good for this – it’s a little more current than the Macy’s brands, but still on the sedate side. Also the Nordstrom in-house brand – I feel like they try to be MMLF at a lower price point?
I buy Hugo Boss and Equipment used on Poshmark.
jcrew, ann taylor, banana republic factory, jcrew factory — if you hit the sales you’ll be doing the same as CK quality and prices.
A lot of brands have suits now because they are in style. Start with here you usually shop.
IDK if I just have very translucent skin or it’s part of being 50, but I am noticing so many capillaries / spider veins this summer. Maybe I’m not used to seeing my legs since we are in an era of big skirts? Maybe I’m more pasty than in prior summers? Is this a thing that you all are noticing? Do you do anything (I understand that they can inject and kill them and that they aren’t important to your health, but it’s a fall/winter thing as you have to spend weeks in support hose after)? I kind of want to clean this up for aesthetics for when next summer rolls around.
Itās part of being 50 Iām sorry to tell you. Self tanner helps.
i think it depends where you’re going with bare legs. if you’re in shorts it doesn’t really matter. if you’re in a skirt pantyhose are (is?) coming back for a reason (but now called “sheer tights”). i’ve also seen ads for opaque makeup to cover spider veins, tattoos, etc. or, like someone else said, self tanner.
I have them and I’m not doing anything to them. You do you, but a relative tried the injections and they worked great when she was younger and now that she’s older and has other health conditions it’s an issue for her overall circulation. But, I think my limit on cosmetic stuff is a lot lower than most. (Isn’t part of approaching 50 not giving any Fs anymore?)
Yeah, I hate this too. I try to watch my weight, stay active, wear cozy wellow (mild compression) socks in winter, elevate my legs when I can. But I haven’t seen a derm (or vascular clinic) yet to ask about options. And I hear they just come back, if you try to spot treat them.
Part of it is genetics too.
Yes, they come back
Huntington’s struck me as a possible thing from this morning’s poster.
Okay?
I think if it were Huntington’s it would be less of an if.
I was thinking it might be something more polarizing or stigmatized (imagine being diagnosed with EDS right now!),
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Wait, why?
She said it wasnāt deadly and Huntingtonās is.
+1
That poster described a genetic disorder (which?) where progression/debilitation could be avoided with preventative care.
That’s unusual, actually, for most of the common (scary) genetic diseases. And in fact, that would push me towards encouraging that poster to inform all of their family members that her genetic counselor recommends, and leave it to them whether to follow up with their doctors.
How can you argue not to tell a family member that they could be carrying a debilitating genetic disorder if there was a way to intervene and prevent disability? The debate starts when you CAN’T intervene and treat a genetic disorder. In those scenarios, you may see more folks it just don’t want to know.
A genetic risk factor for cancer runs in my family, that pushes up my cancer risk a lot. I did my testing after my mother died, and I carry the mutation. It is a dominant mutation, so I informed my brothers and my cousins on my mother’s side of the family so that they can all be tested. They are all men. It was interesting to me which of them immediately acted on the information and got tested, and which have actively decided not to test themselves, and which just couldn’t seem to care less. I nudged each of the ones that didn’t get tested once, and that’s it.
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Give it to me straight – if we want our kid to love learning and study subjects that interest him (and enjoy museums, shows, etc) but we donāt care much about āsuccessā in the traditional sense, should we pony up for private school? Iām somewhat alarmed at what Iām hearing about public schools, especially teaching to the test, limited recess, lack of differentiation to the point of being a negative experience for all, and dumbing down of standards (especially if itās in the name of āinclusion,ā which I find very offensive). Iāve heard the same complaints from enough different people at this point, including two old friends who are teachers, to think itās more than just internet exaggeration. Private school would be a stretch but likely not financially impossible.
This really depends where you live some places have fantastic public schools and others not so much.
Yep. What’s your neighborhood elementary school look like? I went to private school 1-12, and we got an influx of kids at 6th grade and again at 9th when parents opted out of their local school pyramids. It doesn’t matter what someone’s school is like on the internet; go do you research about your local elementary school.
As for whether it’s worth it, I don’t know. I have a much better educational pedigree than my husband, but the only way that really plays out is that I have a much better vocabulary…in part because I loved to read more than he did growing up and in part because our 5th grade vocabulary workbook was an SAT vocabulary workbook, something you wouldn’t get at a public school.
Your last sentence threw me. I was hoping you were going to emphasize going to schools that focus on reading was helpful – as from what I hear you barely read at schools these days. I’m not sure I’m thrilled to hear that your teachers started teaching to the test with an SAT book in 5th grade. That makes me – sad.
Definitely explore the specific public schools and private schools that your children would attend, instead of the general concept of public schools. I am very happy with my kids’ public school district, but other districts may not be a good fit.
But maybe you don’t have kids yet? Whether a kid loves museums and shows will be based on that kid’s personality and interests, not the type of school he or she attends.
Honestly, your goals are not going to come from school, whether public or private. They’re going to come from your own modeling of loving learning, going to museums, asking questions, being interested in your own subjects, etc.
yep, feeding instead of squashing your kid’s curiosity, and enabling it to deal with the peer pressure to not be a nerd if that should be relevant.
Yes, with goals like these I would think private school is NOT the place to be, unless you find some sort of Waldorf unicorn. Private school is where the parents who care about āsuccessā are going to put their kids.
Let school be whatever, and foster a culture of learning and curiosity in your home.
I was thinking that this basically describes a lot of home schooled kids. (Pony up for a governess?)
I’d seriously consider that, if cleverly disguised as a loving grandmotherly nanny.
Waldorf is a weird cult
friendly reminder that Waldorf schools were founded by a nazi who had zero background in childhood education
Plenty of white supremacy and eugenics in the history of schools generally.
And are super antivax
Duly noted, bad example. I myself am much more a fan of Montessori, but the hive seems to hate that education style even more so I picked a different name to drop
Look for a school that offers a āprogressive educationā if there is one in your area. Private schools with this approach can be great for stoking interests, instilling critical thinking and good writing skills. Of course, everywhere, you need to evaluate the exact public schools and exact private school you are considering. Unlike another poster, I think the years through primary school are important to capitalize on the strengths of progressive education and the value carries forward.
When you walk into your local elementary school, what is your immediate visceral response? Do you feel enthusiastic about the building, the teachers, the playground? Is there student art on the walls? Do the kids seem happy and engaged?
Or do you walk away with relief, glad to be out a place that makes your skin crawl for reasons you can’t pin down? I know we usually say “if it isn’t a hell yes, then it’s a no” for dating, but I believe it holds true for schools too. Your child won’t love learning if he’s in a school community full of people who wish they were somewhere else.
This is insane. My nephews school is old and small and ugly. And he doesnāt know that because he is 5. What he knows is that Miss Meredith is the most beautiful woman heās ever seen and she teaches him everything and his art is on the walls and the library lets you take real books home. Most people arenāt in a position to judge a school by a first impression.
His school sounds great (though it would be nice if we made schools that aren’t ugly).
But some schools do have bad vibes, and if anything I think young children are more sensitive when something is off. I have never needed shiny and new and usually see it as a sign of misplaced prioritized, but all the sights and smells of ongoing water damage are depressing when you have to spend a lot of time in a place, if that’s coupled with anxious, crabby, and despondent attitudes from current students, teachers, and staff.
My middle school had buckets in the corridors to catch water dripping from the ceilings when it rained. We are in the PNW. The buckets were a constant fixture.
Over 90% of the kids at my high school went on to college (this was the mid 90s) and we used Howard Zinn’s History of the United States as our text in 11th grade.
The vibe is the vibe.
I think we went to the same middle and high school!!
I think school culture varies widely whether it’s public or private. But I think it does matter to find a school that doesn’t actively impede love of learning or stigmatize it. I hate seeing situations where the student loves learning and is deeply miserable at school for that reason!
Co-sign. The private schools here that are “better” are better because of 1) helicopter sports-success-obsessed SAHMs (so don’t you dare NOT start their kid), 2) $$$, 3) gate-keeping out kids with any issues and starting with kids who already reading in English, and 4) requiring redshirting, so their kids are turning 7 in first grade, so already bigger, stronger, and more “ready” to learn. It’s fine if your kid is the 1-5 starters on the hoops team. If they are bigger or slower, STFU or write a bigger check. Get one kid in but the other has ADHD or dyslexia — prepare to transfer the whole family somewhere else. Parents do papers for the kids and I’m not sure anyone learns grammar unless they take a foreign language (so look at that).
Tell me you donāt know anything about private school without telling me you donāt know anything about private school. Sheesh
Responding to a few questions – one kid, new to our area but schools are āgood.ā I donāt really know what that means – good like pressure cooker? Test scores? I donāt have a good feel. East Bay in Bay Area.
Bay Area is TOUGH. Iām in the South Bay, and here āgoodā = pressure cooker and high depression / suicide rates. Maybe east bay is better since youāre less steeped in tech.
So agree with this. I was shocked to find out that a TODDLER that I babysat when I was in college threw himself in front of a Caltrain. He was from the nicest family. He had severe depression following his father passing from cancer. He was at a pressure cooker school in the mid-Peninsula. RIP.
Whenever I meet someone who went to Casti or Menlo or SH or Paly or MA or Gunn, I really want to say–I’m glad you’re OK. And this is coming from someone who thrived in a school like that (in SoCal) but…not all kids thrive.
I’m in the Midwest and our local city magazine does a yearly ranking for the best school districts in the area. It’s a big deal if you make it in the top 5. They base it off a number of factors like test scores, class size, etc, etc. I’d take a look at your local media to see if they’ve covered anything similar, I’m sure they have.
I’m also in the East Bay. It varies WILDLY. Not every school or district is the same; not every private school is automatically better. You can’t answer this in a vacuum. If you post more information I can share what my experience has been with those specific schools and programs.
We just moved to Walnut Creek. We rent in the district zoned for Las Lomas. We lived in Berkeley for a few years before that.
IDK but I feel that it matters a lot more around middle and high school, so you have some runway to figure this all out. Talk to people. Listen. See who else switches schools. Kids fled our “good” school and while there were 4 K classes, there were only 2 5th grade classrooms. I switched my younger kid at 5th so she’d go to a magnet middle school and that was the right choice for her (the choice to leave was right but our sending choice wasn’t as clear except in retrospect; we often don’t get what is promised or the admin changes on us and they do things like abandon junior great books, etc.).
Do not listen to comments about public school made by people who donāt have kids, and who donāt have kids in your school district. General airing of grievances may not reflect your reality. Even some of the things Iāve seen on social media about our particular district are inaccurate – they are criticizing curriculum we donāt actually use, for example, or theyāre based on rumors that get smacked down at school board meetings. Not to say that everything is perfect, but a lot of people judge first and worry about truth later.
Yeah, I’ve heard people strongly proclaim that our school district does X or Y and it’s not the case. The best information is from people who already have kids at a school.
Omg no. Go read yesterdays mom post if you must. Idk why people are obsessed with panicking over public school. Like, try it and see? There are lots of good ones. If yours sucks consider a change.
From what I’ve seen in k12 and higher ed, modeling curiosity, reading, emphasizing the importance of education and a love of learning for your kids is what makes the difference. Plenty of private school kids are mindless drones chat GPTing their way through their education, too. Aside from truly exclusive private schools (where the network and paths to the Ivies are the real value), you’re better off saving your money and putting it towards college savings, additional enrichment in a child’s interests, time together in nature, whatever.
In our district gifted services don’t really start until 4th grade IIRC. So one friend who has a genius level child did choose to put him in the local private school that caters especially to gifted kids.
If you HAVE a school that especially caters to gifted kids, do consider that if you have a child who can test in. If you DON’T have a school like that, I think your money would be better spent moving to the best public school district in your area and trusting from there. Don’t just assume Catholic school or Montessori is going to be better because it’s private or has small class sizes. We did Montessori for a while with my youngest and some of the teachers were real whackos.
Especially when you’re talking about the recess stage of things, I wouldn’t stress over this too much.
I think 4th grade is old to stat a gifted program now. K or 1st is the norm for public schools, among my friends and acquaintances. Ours started in first grade officially, although there was a lot of classroom differentiation even in K.
So we left NYC in part because I didnāt like the fact that they tested for gifted at age 4 – my son was very smart but not reliably cooperative then, and I didnāt want his path chosen at that age.
(From an Google search just now, apparently cognitive testing is most reliable from ages 6-9.)
I think most schools retest yearly and add children to the program as they qualify. So you might not get in at 5 but you could get in at 7 or 9. Once in, you donāt get booted out easily (only for serious behavior issues or total inability to keep up with academic work), so the gifted program gets larger every year. At least thatās how our school does it.
The best advice I’ve ever heard on picking a school was from my kids’ preK teacher. Her suggestion was to consider first, and most seriously, the local public school to which your kid is assigned by the school district. Then, look at any other possibilities.
While there are plenty of problems with public school (and I say that as a long-term, committed public school parent), there are also a lot of good and good-enough public schools where there are 10 amazing things that outweigh the 2 not-so-amazing things.
One thing I enjoyed about my private school education was that it was cool to be smart and involved and follow your passions – AND that the school provided avenues for that.
If you had something you wanted to dive into a teacher would create an independent study. We had funding for students to do all sorts of research in any subject.
It was like being at a selective SLAC.
This sounds ideal. Almost as if a really good local library were somehow also a school (my dream school concept when I was a kid).
No. Use public school and throw the difference at travel, enriching camps and outings to the theatre and ballet. School doesnāt actually matter that much if you come from an educated family with the means for enriching out of school experiences.
Iām on safari with my kid now and sheās learned far more about animals in 2 days than she did in 2 years of elementary school. And I donāt think thatās a public school failing – I think hands on learning is just much more effective for kids
Small classes and more resources mean that private schools do more hands on learning.
Itās nothing compared to travel and the really excellent camps.
Super niche hunt, figure it’s worth asking here! I watched a K-drama on Netflix, “Business Proposal.” In episode 9, there’s a scene where two women are in a car and I LOVE the driver’s earrings. Driver’s character is Yoo Jung (I’ve also seen it spelled Yu-jeong) and she’s with her cousin Jin Young Seo. Driver’s earrings look like large, decorated hoops? Driver isn’t the main character so I can’t find it on any fashion blogs. Apparently this scene has been turned into a meme or gif, if you search Business proposal + “you know I have no chingu” or “you know I don’t have friends” you can maybe eyeball them! Or if you know any super-detailed sites that have this info. I do not have social media, so am relying on web search!
I failed to find this with a reverse image search, but you might like some of the earrings that come up on a reverse image search if you haven’t tried that approach yet (good file quality helps).
Does this help?
https://inkistyle.com/kim-se-jeong-business-proposal-episodes-9-12-kdrama-fashion/
https://www.wconcept.com/product/noailles-14k-earring/710371740.html
These?
Help me shop-Aspen wedding in August. Need a dress. Very different vibe than my normal Florida attire. Size 14, 5ā10 and wedding invite says Aspen Glam.
Even if it’s not what they envisioned, I grant you permission to show up in something that Beth from Yellowstone would wear. It’s $$$, but she wore a cape from Pendleton that I covet. I think you can google “as worn on TV” or similar for Beth Dutton and a lot of pictures and links will come up.
A maxi dress to show off your height! Whether you also want to show off elsewhere, is up to you
As a fellow 5’10” girly, maxi dresses make me look absolutely enormous, and not in a glamorous way. Choose your maxis carefully. I look both tall and awkward in maxi dresses. I think they lengthen regular-height and petite people, but if you’re already tall and not absurdly rail thin, you risk looking “omg how taaaalll are you?” and not in a good way.
Another 5ā10ā woman who hates maxi dresses here.
Something like this with a fun jacket to put on when it cools off – maybe with boots!
Oops link here, forgot: https://www.anthropologie.com/shop/the-gracie-cowl-neck-satin-slip-maxi-dress?category=dresses-occasion-cocktail&color=009&type=STANDARD&quantity=1
I am seeing a Rheumatologist next week to investigate some recent bloodwork and I am a little nervous. My primary care doc/hematologist strongly suspect I have ITP. Has anyone from the Hive had an ITP diagnosis? From what the hematologist said, I will need to get bloodwork a few times a year to check on my platelet levels. I may require steroids or transfusions if my levels dip too low. Just curious if anyone else has dealt with this!
Yes! Feel free to post a burner if you like. The one thing I would say is definitely get tested for immune deficiencies now. ITP is often an autoimmune manifestation of a primary immune deficiency.
Itās been a while since we had a good confessions post. Spill that thing youād normally never tell. Iāll post mine below.
**this is a judgement-free zone**
Iām at peace with having gone no-contact with my mother, but Iām pissed off at all the social pressure to be a dutiful daughter ā it played a role in keeping me locked into a severely abusive relationship for a long time. And itās relentless. Why are people so insistent and so up in my business?
I wish I had switched to formula sooner. It wasnāt worth it to pump near-exclusively when nursing didnāt work well.
A positive one ā my relationship with my partner is more equal than I could have imagined due to my own sexist upbringing.
Mine is related to the same – my husband does more around the house than I do. I feel guilty about it sometimes but I guess if we are moving past historical gendered roles toward equality, there are going to be straight couples where the husband does more of the āwifeā stuff than the actual wife does.
Iāve always been the primary earner so thatās how we got here. But he also worked a corporate job before retirement. He just didnāt have the big career.
My partner of two years and I are going to discuss either going on a break or breaking up on Sunday. We still love each other but the relationship is just not working anymore. I am equal parts relieved and sad. He can turn the most minor things into a fight and I am no longer showing up as my authentic self because of that. But the thing I’m dreading the most is having to tell my friends and especially my dysfunctional family that I (we) failed to make it work
My condolences.
I want to leave my partner so bad but I have no support system and I know my family will take his side and be super judgey.
Iāve heard it suggested that you could say he broke up with you if itās easier to pretend it was out of your hands to your friends/family.
Our parents think we tried IVF and it failed, but really we didnāt want to keep pursuing kids when IUI didnāt work. But if we didnāt let them believe we hadnāt exhausted the option, the guilt trips over grandchildren would have ruined our relationship.
IVF is torture and the long term health risks are no joke. Crazy how it’s ‘expected’
I’ve let people believe this before. Sometimes it’s just too complicated and personal to get into.
We are $37 away from crossing the $2m investment mark. Iām 36. That feels pretty good!
Thatās amazing!
Wow congrats!
Weāre probably not too far from that these days at the same age but you wouldnāt know it by looking at my homeless-adjacent aesthetic. Guess thatās my confession.
I am sitting here with a messy bun in a five year old Old Navy shirt I just spilled Thai food on, so same vibe here. Hell yeah; us!
But thatās now you end up saving that much money. Iām sitting on enough to retire comfortably at a 3-4% annual withdrawal rate and I wear Old Navy pants almost every day.
Thank you to whoever suggested Thursday Night Murder Club, I’m loving it. What other amusing, not too dark mysteries like it should I read? Are any of classics like Agatha Christie this fun?
Agatha Christie is not quite as fun, IMO, although they are still cozy and enjoyable and you should try them. I tend to like Hercule Poirot better than Miss Marple. If you like Thursday Murder Club, you should also check out Richard Osman’s other mysteries. There are several TMC sequels, and We Solve Murders is a new set of characters I liked just as much. Other authors I enjoy and think are similar vibe:
Deanna Raybourn (the series beginning with Killers of a Certain Age, as well as the Veronica Speedwell series).
Anthony Horowitz (Magpie Murders or The Word is Murder, etc. Not Moriarty. It’s not bad, just not quite the same vibe)
Benjamin Stevenson (Everyone In My Family Has Killed Someone and sequels)
The Marlow Murder Club series of books by Richard Thorogood. Theyāre also a TV series on PBS, about to start season two in August.
I really love Anthony Horowitzās adult mysteries.
I haven’t read Osmond’s series yet, but if you like light-hearted mystery and want to try Agatha Christie, I’d recommend:
Cat among the Pidgeons. It’s a light-hearted mystery set a girls’ boarding school.
Secret of Chimney’s – very early one (1920ies) and it’s an international espionage, country house plot.
They Came to Baghdad. International espionage, but quite fun. One of the mysteries that showcases her archaeological connection.
If you want to go. a little more classic:
And then there were none – it’s a masterpiece, but maybe not light-hearted.
The Body in the Library – a classic Miss Marple.
How about the Amelia Peabody series by Elizabeth Peters?
https://www.goodreads.com/series/40876-amelia-peabody
Love these. Audio is also great.
Georgette Heyer’s Footsteps in the Dark is great.
Goodreads: “Locals claim the Priory is haunted and refuse to put a single toe past the front door. Left empty for years, and even their deceased uncle chose to live in a different house, far away from this particular property. But the ramshackle old house, with its rambling charm is the perfect setting for a much-needed holiday for siblings Peter, Celia and Margaret, who have inherited it from their uncle. It wasn’t the lack of modern conveniences that made a summer spent at the ancient priory mansion such an unsettling experience. It was the supposed ghost… or whatever was groaning in the cellars and roaming the countryside around Framley Village after dark.”
For the humor, lighter vibe, and mature characters, I enjoyed Killers of a Certain Age by Deanna Raybourn and its sequel Kills Well With Others. She also wrote a historical mystery series called the Veronica Speedwell series, set in Victorian London. They are also light hearted and a little cozy.
Also check out Ally Carter’s The Most Wonderful Crime of the Year (set during the Christmas holidays and directly inspired by Agatha Christie) and the Masie Dobbs series.
My favorite Agatha Christie novel is And Then There Were None. Her mysteries are great and classics for a reason, but the tone is more serious.
Anyone have good SPF lip product to recommend? Iām vain and want it to have real color, more than MLLB. Cool toned, think a berry type of tint, but not so bold to be Meredith Blake poolside drama.
Dāoh meant better than MLBB (my lips but better) but hopefully the meaning came through
Burt’s Bees and prequel.
I have been doing a highSPF lip balm and then adding a layer of lip oil.
The super goop ones are good. The colors can be vibrant so choose carefully.
Neutrogena has a gloss in a tube like LancĆ“me Juicy tubes, but with SPF. Itās called the Lip Soother. I ordered the color Glaze 60. Im a pale cool toned girl so this is a natural looking shade on me but closer to a gloss than a lip tint of any sort.
Last year I created āsculpture
bingoā for my grandkids during āgrandma week.ā It took me 3 weeks to plan, I made 40 prompts (āred and bigger than you,ā āa bugā āblack and whiteā) they chose 25 of those to glue their own bingo grid, and we spent 3 days going to different sculpture parks, gardens, walks. All ages loved it, it was part scavenger hunt and part game. I get to have grandma week again in 2 weeks!! Help me think of something else unique? We have been to every ākid thingā in my metro and more (science center, zoo, imax, water sports, state capital tour, art museum, climbing and tumbling and jumping gyms, parks, fancy restaurants, botantical garden). Their parents take them hiking and exploring state and national parks a lot (and I am a little worried about corralling the little ones if we did a big hike). They cook with me during the week. I am willing to put some time and money into making something, I also take off two extra days from work before they come for grocery shopping and final prep. Prefer something that can be at least part outside, they have some buy in/anticipation, and that all ages can enjoy. (Ages 6-13, 5 of them, I rent a van.)
Do they have any favorite books that feature specific foods? You could make a picnic lunch with a book food theme. My mom did this for us as kids with the Great Brain series. It was super fun.
This is so cool.
How about something focused on different countries/regions/continents? You could explore different grocery stores, hunt through museums for art from different regions, look in the botanical gardens for plants that originated in different areas. Zoos, games, sports . . . you could probably touch on them all.
wow, that sounds amazing and you are brave! My mom prefers to take my kids individually for Grandma camp. Easier for her, and they enjoy being only children temporarily.
Build something together? My first thought was a treehouse, which my kids had a blast doing one summer, but that is very involved. My siblings and I used to love making “survival shelters” when I was a kid. If you don’t have your own outdoor space, a local park could work…there are several stick lean-tos that crop up each summer along our favorite creek hike. Maybe work in some survival tales or how-to books, or tree/plant identification. Or go all in encouraging naked and afraid (clothed!) style ingenuity to where to find and carry water, and ID edible plants. Then go home and eat real food. š
My grandmother would take either the 3 girl cousins or all 5 cousins for a week in the summer. I have no idea how she did it, but she was a math teacher and could command a room full of kids.
Some of my favorite memories of those weeks are:
– playing “house” in her camper, I believe inspired by The Boxcar Children. We pretended at some stuff, like cooking, but she actually did bring out a sewing machine and scraps and teach us how to sew (at least she taught my cousins, I apparently cannot be taught)
– Helping her cook. She taught us to make bread, snap beans, and ice cakes.
– Working in her garden.
– Camping. We built a fire, made smores, and I (the 2nd youngest) freaked everyone out with ghost stories I’d read in Goosebumps.)
We also did trips and activities and restaurants, but many of the best memories are of free play with my cousins, renting movies to watch at night, and learning from my grandmother under the guise of “helping.”
No advice but this is awesome! My mom does a grandma week with my daughter every summer, but she only has the one grandchild. Iām so impressed you do it with 5!