What Your Tote Bag Says About You

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2016 Update: Links have been updated as of 2016.  See our most recent discussion on professional tote bags here!

Last week, we suggested Hayden-Harnett’s Ibiza “convertible flight tote” to readers — intending to recommend it as a tote bag for when you need to take home approximately fifteen pounds of paperwork — so we were a bit surprised when commenters railed against it as looking cheap as a purse (to us:  duh, of course, your purse is separate from that!) and bad as a carry-on (again, to us:  duh, of course, because the best soft carry-on is LeSportsac — how can that even be debated?).  After we got over our internal monologue, we’ve been thinking about all the different tote bags we’ve seen through the years.

To be clear:  These are not the kind of tote bags you carry with you to interviews — nor are they the kind of bags you use to carry a magazine and some papers.  These are the bags that you keep somewhere in your office and pull out on Friday afternoon when you suddenly realize you have to read or review thousands of pages over the weekend, and don’t feel like trying to box it up (or come into the weekend).  There are a few different varieties of them, and we’ve always thought they convey bits of your personality to people.

Readers, what’s your favorite for this kind of tote bag?  Do you think we’re accurate in our “personality” types?


longchamp tote for workThe “fancy” but practical bag.  Think Longchamp, the Ibiza bag, or any bag consisting of nylon and leather in a combination.  The nylon keeps the bag lightweight (aside from those fifteen pounds of papers, of course) yet very, very durable, and the leather adds a bit of glam as well as sturdiness.  We have packed our Longchamp to the brim and it always retains its shape.  (Alas, the largest sizes of the Longchamp bags are not available online — but for reference, pictured at left is Longchamp ‘Le Pliage’ Two Tone Shoulder Tote, available at Nordstrom’s for $125.)  This is our preferred look — it shows you care how it looks while you’re breaking your back doing work.
neverfull tote bag professionalThe “luxury” bag — such as Vuitton or Goyard.  For our money, the luxury bag is frequently a bit impractical — they never seem big enough, we’d worry about ripping the leather, and — considering the purpose — it seems a bit like a waste of money.  But, if you’re trying to convey that you’re a woman who cares about luxury at any cost, this is your bag.  For practical purposes (weight and durability), we would advise you to go with a treated canvas bag instead of a leather one, such as the Louis Vuitton’s “NeverFull GM,” available at LouisVuitton.com for $750.
rolling laptop bags for womenThe wheeled bag.  This one tells people that you’re a) smart and concerned about your health, b) serious about getting paperwork to and from the office, and c) possibly aren’t driving/being driven to and from work.  All said, these aren’t bad things to convey in today’s economy.  The downsides:  it’s not very fashionable, and if you end up with less papers (leaving some at home, recycling them, whatever) you’re still encumbered by the rolling bag. Pictured: Travelpro Tote TPro Xtreme Lite 15 Rolling Tote Granite, available at Amazon for as low as $84.
work backpack for womenThe backpack.  This is our least favorite option, if only because it tells people you haven’t really upgraded your bag (and possibly your style) since you were in school.  Pictured:  Deluxe Book Pack, available at L.L. Bean for $39.95.
ll bean boat bagThe boat bag.  The funny thing here is that, by and large, the female partners we know use these to shuttle their papers to and from work.  It conveys that you’re definitely driving/being driven (that open top is just a disaster waiting to happen on public transportation), and it can be a subtle way of telling people things about you:  I gave enough money to Charity X to get a tote bag!  I went to Conference Y and received this tote bag!  All in all, not a bad option to keep at the office.  Pictured:  Boat and Tote Bag, Open-Top, available at L.L. Bean for $30.95.

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  1. I agree that the particular wheeled bag you feature is not fashionable, but I think that there are better options out there. I have the older model of the Kensington Contour Bag (http://www.amazon.com/Kensington-62430-Traveler-Notebook-Computer/dp/B000FLNS80/ref=sr_1_7?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1251745635&sr=8-7) and have carted it everywhere for a few years. It’s served me well and it’s carry-on friendly. It’s also practically waterproof (even through puddles of water). I’m not really sure how I feel about the newer model (http://www.amazon.com/Kensington-K62533US-Contour-Notebook-Notebooks/dp/B0011YAOBE/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=office-products&qid=1251745635&sr=8-1) but I think it’s actually trying to be *more* fashionable, and I definitely prefer it over the one above.

  2. What do you think of Coach bags?

    • Used to love them – until about the year they did the Crayola-scribble and started splashing the C’s all over everything. I think quality started to suffer then, too. A quick skim of the “business” bags on their website – I would consider the madison julianne depending on how it felt in the store, but the rest don’t look worth the money.

      • I can’t stand any designer that splashes its logo all over its bags (a la the crayola Coach C you referenced) but I have a black leather Coach tote that is large enough to fit a few legal sized folders and has held up very well over the 3-4 years I have hauled it to court and client pitches and home. It is essentially a very large purse but works well for hauling documents (and a laptop when needed) around because I dislike carrying any type of brief bag/tote plus a purse. Plus it looks professional – in my opinion. Of course, when I’m just carrying documents home for the weekend I tend to grab whatever free tote or brief bag that is lying around my office and I don’t think too much about the fashion side of it since that is strictly a utilitarian purpose.

      • The outlet still carries a lot of the more traditional leather designs without the C’s all over everything. I find them to be far more timeless than the department store offerings. There are also far more sales and deals available, so you can get something at a reasonable price.

    • Downtowngirl :

      As long as the newer styles with the handwritten and/or patchwork look-a-like C’s are avoided, Coach is still a sleek, quality bet. My black leather Coach bag has lasted 6 years.

  3. LL Bean makes a boat and tote with a zip top (which I have, but don’t necessarily use for work). That would solve the issue with papers flying out.

  4. I should also mention that I typically carry a Vera Bradley Large Tic Tac Tote in one of their more subdued prints–black background. It is quilted and very lightweight–yet surprisingly sturdy. The straps are also the perfect length to put it over the shoulder, yet not have it flopping around.

  5. I am 100% in favor of a backpack for carrying home large amounts of papers/files/books. Regardless of whether or not I look like a student, it is better for my back/shoulders and sturdy.

    • I totally agree – backpack all the way for me. I walk and take the bus, and no way am I going to a) roll a wheelie through all the street muck and then track it through my house; b) slouch to one side with a heavy bag on one shoulder; or c) bend forward like a hinge with the weight of a sling bag like the Le Sport Sac.

    • Right on. If I’ve got to haul around fifteen pounds of anything, I’m going to use a backpack. It’s the only way I’m going to make it home without pulling a muscle or wearing myself out. My trusty Jansport (which saw me through high school, college, and law school!) may look a bit dorky, but it’s definitely better than staggering around, exhausted.

    • I am acquainted with a senior female partner who uses a backpack for everything – even brings it to court. She prefers public transportation, so I definitely see the practical aspect. She is actually really well-dressed otherwise – quite curious.

      • I take a lot of pride in my appearance, including accessories, but I use a backpack for work. I’d much rather stand up straight when I’m 50 than carry a cute shoulder satchel. And I use public transportation and I’m not going to run over toes with a wheely bag. I keep dreaming I’ll find a cute professional backpack — best I can do is a high quality black one.

  6. bostonviv :

    if it were possible to move those files into digital format, then that’s the way i would go.

  7. Regarding the LV “Never-Full”–I got one as a present when starting law school, and have used it nearly daily for work, school, and as an overnight bag, going on about 3 years. Yes, it’s definitely a little in-your-face and label whorish. But I can fit 3 or 4 days worth of clothes and toiletries in it. Or a laptop and many very heavy textbooks. Or a bunch of files (it’s nice and long) and a pair of shoes or two, and umbrella. Your fears about durability are unjustified–this bag is seriously never going to die. It looks nearly as nice as the day I got it (and I promise, I am not known for taking good care of my stuff), and those handles, despite carrying exceedingly heavy loads, are still sturdily affixed–and a nice length for carrying.

    I’m honestly just promoting this bag because despite looking ridiculous, it’s insanely practical–so I’m hoping to encourage more people to use it, so I stick out less. Selfish, but honest.

  8. It is completely silly to say but at the Kate Spade outlet mall I bought one of their baby / diaper bags as a tote. It is tan with pink handles so it’s not totally obvious, has a zipped compartment, 2 inside pockets and an outside pocket. It’s the perfect size for notepads and papers. They also had one in black w/ green details which was more expensive / not on sale but would also work as an office tote. http://www.katespade.com/product/index.jsp?productId=3009299&cp=2450627.1876038
    Mine is canvas and was on sale for much less than this but you get the idea

    • Lisa, I also use a Kate Spade diaper bag. it’s super sturdy, classic and classy. I love it. And it get compliments on it all the time.

    • Downtowngirl :

      I have a Coach diaper bag. It’s pretty much the best thing ever, but a little large for daily use unless I’m planning to use it for a gym bag as well.

  9. Am I the only person who thinks Le Sport Sacs are really hideous? They seem to be popular, but they just look ugly to me…

  10. housecounsel :

    I hate you, Corporette, and you, k, for giving me a case of LV lust that I had managed to avoid until now. That looks like the perfect bag and I want it so bad I can taste it.

    I’m also digging out my Coach diaper bag to decide if it looks too diaperesque!

  11. The Louis Vuitton bag is not leather, it’s canvas. The only part that is leather are the straps.

  12. The LL Bean Boat N Tote is UEBER preppy/old money/ I summer in Maine. It’s also very useful for car trips, grocery runs, you name it. I have two of the largest size. They are used all the time. You’d be surprised.

  13. Christina :

    I use the Boat N Tote, the Kate Spade Diaper Bag, and the Tory Burch tote bag. They are all nice, sturdy, square shapes that hold a lot of documents neatly, don’t look too dorky, and are lightweight. And they all go on sale and don’t take up a ton of space in the office. I obcess about tote bags these days. All of them are fine on the subway–even those without zippers–as they keep the papers organized within well.

  14. I heart my Boat and Tote. Use it all the time. I’ve had it for 15 years, it looks great. My only regret is that my name is on it, which makes it even preppier. When I want to be less Waspy, I carry a Hable Construction bag. It’s a modern take on the Boat and Tote.

  15. I can vouch for the LV neverfull. I have had mine for almost a year and a half. I carried it every day studying for the bar- so it could withstand the abuse of those heavy barbri outline books. While the straps will cut into your shoulders if you attempt to carry too much weight, it is very durable and you can easily fit several files and a second pair of shoes.

    However, I think the momogram is a bit much for court, so I really only carry it on casual Fridays when I don’t have court or a meeting.

  16. I just bought this in a dark teal. I’m a student, so I was looking for something under $100. It looks nicer in person than the product image- the middle seam stitching isn’t as puckery.

  17. The LL Bean tote doesn’t only say “I summer in Maine”; it says “I summer on Nantucket and I have a boat.”

  18. I have two LL Bean Boat and Totes. One with my initials on it and one from the law firm I worked at. One has a zipper and long handles so I can easily throw it over my shoulder and the other is open with shorter handles so its definitely more of a beach tote. The totes are incredibly preppy, but also really sturdy. I use it for everything — overnight bag, carry on, law school books. This summer, while I was working at a firm, I used it to carry my change of clothes for all the outdoorsy firm events we had after work. Perfect!

    They’re pretty cheap (compared to LV and Coach) and there are a lot of options in terms of color, size and handle style so you can design your perfect Boat and Tote!

  19. What about a nice mid-range Cole Haan? I have a large black leather tote that I’ve used for 3 years. It fits my laptop, some papers, waterbottle, scarf, etc. and , I think, looks more professional than the options listed in this post.

  20. I have carried a zip-top monogrammed L L Bean boat ‘n’ tote bag (long handles in black) for the past three years of teaching — it holds a lot, and when not in use, the “zip top” lays flat against the inside of the bag. It’s a good compromise. I have noticed this year, though, a lot of people at my work returning to classic JanSport backpacks — I blame the economy… less is more at the moment.

  21. divaliscious11 :

    The LV Never-full. It can hold up to 500lbs without strap failure, holds a LOT, including my lap-top in the sleeve, side straps are adjustable to control size/shape. Its a throw-back to the luggage collection that LV is actually famous for, and as a carry-on, I can usually throw my bag inside of it and get past that 2 bag rule for carry-ons.

    Plus, its a gorgeous bag… no need to be unfashionable…why the heck do we work so hard if not to enjoy the fruit of our labor!

  22. I think that Le Sport Sacs bags are hideous, too. ~shudder~

    I’ve had my LLBean Boat & Tote bag for 35 (!) years and am still carting around library books, beach stuff, and everything else in it. It doesn’t look very pretty at this point (although that well-worn look has its own appeal), but it does the job!

  23. hey boat & toat-ers, what size do you have? Long handles? There is one that zips too, hmm…so grateful I’m getting hung up on this one and not the LV that is beyond my student loan capabilities at the moment…

    • depends on the volume you’ll want. For schlepping heavy papers, I’d go with a medium or large (if we’re talking binders) with long straps. X-large holds a family’s-worth of beach toys (my mom still uses hers 15 years later…) so it’s probably more room than you need. If you look at the site, they show pictures of each size next to an actual person.

  24. The large Longchamp is available online at Saks: http://www.saksfifthavenue.com/main/ProductDetail.jsp?PRODUCT%3C%3Eprd_id=845524444768851&FOLDER%3C%3Efolder_id=282574492709211&ASSORTMENT%3C%3East_id=1408474395222441&bmUID=1251771828324&ev19=1:5

    I had a smaller version as a purse but got the large size as a gift during 1L. Durable enough not to show wear even from my laptop (which I keep in a protective neoprene sleeve inside the tote) and multiple casebooks … and light enough not to add to my already heavy load!

  25. I am suprised no one has mentioned (including the OP) a briefcase. Tumi and Lodis both make nice, feminine ones. Am I the only women that carries one? Mine has a laptop compartment if I need to take my computer home, if not, I stick more documents in there. I also have a longchamp that I received as a bridesmaid’s gift, but it is pink, so not very professional.

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