This is an occasional feature where we take a deeper look at weekend wear for professional women.
Ladies, which are your favorite bags (or types of bags) to carry when you go out on the town? Do you make an effort to switch bags when you’re going out, or do you often just end up carrying the same bag you wore to work? Do you prefer one brand/style to wear with jeans on dates, and another brand/style to wear as, say, a wedding guest?
I’ve always had a few nice clutches that I liked for weddings and other fancyish events, but during my single days I often found myself going out on the weekend with the same bag that I’d worn during the work week. (This is what I used to carry in my regular bag for work.) After diaper bags entered our lives, though, I went through a phase where I bought a ton of nice clutches for date nights with my husband, and I even have a few small crossbodies. In my mind, the pros and cons to the different weekend bag options break down like this:
Your Regular Work Bag/Tote
Pros: plenty of room for whatever you need — a book or magazine (in case you’re stuck waiting for someone), an extra sweater or even a change of clothes (if you’re, say, hitting the gym before grabbing drinks with a friend).
Cons: not very “festive” — plus you run the risk of whacking people with it if you end up standing in a tight space, like at a bar or club.
Pros: Cute with your outfit, and you can often find ones that are witty in a sophisticated way (I think Kate Spade reigns supreme here, but I also like the cheeky eyes clutch from Clare V above). If you want sleek and ladylike, there are some clutches that bridge the gap from wedding guest to date night (I think the much-loved Minkoff envelope clutch does that). Plus — call me crazy! — but there’s also a magic that happens when you pare down to just what you need for going out — kind of like you leave your troubles/worries in your regular bag and just take your favorite lipstick, ID, and credit card with you.
Cons: You worry about where to put the bag all night (on the table? behind you on your chair, in the small of your back? on the floor?) and if you’re at a standing event it’s tricky to juggle a drink and a plate of food unless you tuck it under your arm. My favorite kind of clutch to get has either a) a small thin chain that can be tucked inside so it can become a shoulder bag, if you need it (like this affordable Phase 3 clutch), and/or b) has a handle that’s flush with the clutch (not like a wristlet or satchel) to help you clutch your clutch (which, huh, Valentino calls a “flat hand strap.”)
Cons: I have not yet reached the level of fancy that I have any desire for one of these babies. If my driver’s license doesn’t fit I don’t see the point in carrying it — and some of the sparklier ones just look like they would snag the heck out of any delicate fabric like lace or silk. Plus, most of them are literally meant to be carried in your hand, not tucked under your arm. (I would consider the Kate Spade box clutch above to be more on the minaudière side of things, but it’s adorable…and on sale. Hmmmn…)
Small Shoulder Bags
Pros: Modern! See above re: the magic of whittling down. Also: You aren’t whacking people with your bag, and you can juggle a plate of food and a drink easily!
Cons: The longer straps that are in right now remind me so much of every bag I carried in my teens — it’s an 80s look that I just don’t like. (But: I love the optional shoulder straps on this grommet clutch from AllSaints, pictured above — and a flat handle! I’m in love.)
Pros: Modern! Trendy! See above re: magic of whittling down and lack of whacking people.
Cons: Maybe it’s because I’m busty, but I just never like the way they lay. Plus, I feel like the trendier way to wear them is with the bag behind you, but that goes against my general preference (at least in the subway or whatnot) to keep my bag in front of me. They also feel really casual to me. (But then, the two I have are Botkier and Elizabeth & James, so there you go.) (Oooh: but the affordable Sole Society clutch/crossbody (pictured above) may make me reconsider that — love the slightly gritty vibe to it — this one has a cleaner look that’s nice, too.)
I don’t know, ladies — what are your thoughts? Which bags are your favorite going out bags? Have you bought any great ones lately, or do you like to mix it up by renting them through Rent the Runway?
Psst: our last discussion on going out clothes if you’re over 25.
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Workwear sales of note for 12.5.22: (Our favorites are in bold!)
- Nordstrom – Up to 60% off, with new markdowns on coats and shoes!
- Ann Taylor – 50% off select full-price styles
- Banana Republic Factory – Up to 50% off everything plus extra 25% off $125+
- Betabrand – Up to 70% off sitewide, plus take an extra 15% off with code. Reader favorite yoga dress pants come down to around $40.
- Eddie Bauer – 40% off outdoor gifts; 60% off select camp fleece; free shipping on outerwear
- Elie Tahari – 30-50% off; Sweater Shop 40% off
- Eloquii – 60% off holiday deals; $25 select tops and sweaters
- Express – 30-50% off everything
- J.Crew – Extra 60% off sale; 30% off almost everything else
- J.Crew Factory – Up to 60% off everything!
- Lands’ End – Up to 70% off your order with code – reader favorite wool dresses and pants come down to under $60 (plus sizes too!); ponte dresses start at $30.
- Loft – 40% off full-price styles plus extra 25% off Lou & Grey
- Madewell – $50 jeans plus 30% off everything else
- Neiman Marcus – 25% off select styles; 20% off select jewelry
- Talbots – 40% off entire purchase
- Universal Standard – Denim starting at $29
Gift Ideas for Men:
- American Giant – Readers have always recommended their hoodies (Kat’s husband loves his and the tees are nice also).
- Lululemon: Their pants are big sellers for men!
- Ugg – Kat’s husband loves this hoodie.
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