A Bun in the Oven and a Mother in Court

by C on 02/02/2009 · 39 comments

in Fashion, Lifestyle, Wear to Work

picture-2We were out and about at a party Saturday night when a friend announced her good news: she’s pregnant! The problem, she confided to us, was her wardrobe — she’s in court three days a week and has no idea how to survive her pregnancy without buying several new suits every few months. This is a bit outside our field of expertise (we have yet to shop maternity) but we promised to look into it. Readers, please comment in — where can professional clothes be found for the mom-to-be?

We began our search at Old Navy; we remembered a friend raving about their maternity department a few years ago. Given that our friend is normally a St. John’s sort of woman, this was news. While Old Navy was flush with nice pants (see Maternity: Maternity Real Waist Stretch Twill Pants – Roof Tile, on sale for $25), there was nothing court-appropriate.

Next stop: Target, where the Liz Lange for Target Maternity collection seems to have just sold out of a lot of amazing, darling suits for $25ish per piece. Drat. Still, some seriously cute dresses for the office, such as this well-reviewed Sleeveless Ponte Dress — Ebony (for $25).

Next we tried Google searches. Through there, we found Isabella Oliver — “designer” maternity wear — who in fact does have maternity suits. But there, the prices are way higher — $268 for a jacket. Furthermore, maybe it’s just the crazed look on the model’s face, but perhaps a woman already flush with hormones should avoid anything but simple, basic outfits.
For some reason, we resisted the actual specialty maternity shops until after we’d exhausted our thoughts of discount suppliers. But we started finding real pay dirt with these stores. First up: A Pea in the Pod.  Here, the selection is great, but the prices are higher — for the working mom-to-be on a budget, we recommend checking EBay for pieces you want, as well as consignment shops and Craig’s List. (One friend of ours paid $50 for a trunk of maternity clothes from Craig’s List — without knowing a single piece that was in the trunk — and it lasted her through her ) But deals can be had, such as this classic black blazer at Pea in the Pod — once $128, it’s now $49. Button Front Maternity Jacket
We hit more paydirt at another specialty shop: Motherhood Maternity.  This would probably be our first stop, were we pregnant — the prices are definitely suitable to clothes you won’t be wearing for more than a few months.  We liked this stretch fabric maternity jacket, on sale for $15 (from $35.)

(Note: We’re not entirely sure WHY, but the same jacket seems to be $15 at Destination Maternity, also.  Are the companies linked?)

(Note 2:  Note that the gray stitch detail maternity jacket, at the top, is also from Motherhood Maternity and is also $15.)

Of course, you can always just give up and try to face your sartorial conundrum with humor, such as these shirts from Cafe Press’s broad selection ($25-$35ish):



Check out some more professional maternity options, below…

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t February 2, 2009 at 5:28 pm

I think Lane Bryant has a maternity line.

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Kate February 2, 2009 at 5:31 pm

Motherhood Maternity and A Pea in the Pod, along with the other companies on that website, are owned by the same company, and Destination Maternity is their online website. Motherhood is the less expensive version, but you should watch out – some of the stuff is REALLY polyester and low quality, but a lot of it can be really cute and functional.

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cdn lawyerista February 2, 2009 at 5:35 pm

When I was pregnant with my first, I bought a skirt, jacket and pants from Motherhood in basic black, plus a jackets or two from consignment shops, and then borrowed a couple of suits (ask around, people are generous). That got me though. The Motherhood suit has been worn by many other moms to be. I recommend their stuff, it is pretty reasonable. In Canada there is also Thyme maternity, not sure if you have that in Canada. They may have something too. There is also stuff on eBay (obvs).

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E February 2, 2009 at 5:41 pm

C – Destination Maternity (and destinationmaternity.com) is the umbrella for three companies: Motherhood Maternity, Mimi Maternity and a Pea in the Pod. There are Destination Maternity stores and there are individual stores for each brand. The Destination Maternity stores, if you are lucky enough to have one by you, are great, because you can shop all three brands at once.
FYI – I am an attorney in a smaller firm and don’t have to wear suits everyday. If I did have to wear a suit everyday, I would definitely go to ebay and Pea in the Pod. Motherhood Maternity, while a good value, can look cheap. Mimi is also good – they have great black dress pants I am wearing right now (which have lasted me since month 5 and I am starting my 9th month). Japanese Weekend is also great. Target, in store, has a very limited selection.

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Anonymous February 2, 2009 at 6:48 pm

Babystyle also has some good maternity work-wear. I found a suit there last year, but haven’t looked recently.
Anne Taylor Loft is another place to look.

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KF February 2, 2009 at 7:01 pm

Ann Taylor has a maternity line online – while there are some “trial “stores carrying their maternity line – difficult to find.

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nia February 2, 2009 at 7:10 pm

You have to be very creative and work on hybrid outfits. Gap has comfortable maternity clothes that are relatively well made. I found that the destination maternity stuff ran small, was sized strangely (a pair of work pants at pea in the pod that were $150 came in SML….) poorly made and itchy.

I wore a lot of black, black skirts, tights, pants dresses etc and then topped that with a more colorful and distracting cardigan or jacket from jcrew. Do not try and cover up a pregnant stomach it’s like trying to hide a hickey. Just wear distracting accessories.

The worst part is that your body changes and changes and changes so you’re really spending all of your free time shopping, the pants that fit at 20 weeks will probably cause pain at 30.

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Anonymous February 2, 2009 at 7:40 pm

Unfortunately Ann Taylor Loft seems to have discontinued their maternity line.

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8 months February 2, 2009 at 7:43 pm

I’m over 8 months pregnant and have a big trial next week, so I definitely understand the concern. I bought a dark gray pantsuit from A Pea in the Pod when I was three months pregnant and have been wearing it constantly ever since. It is actually flattering and very professional looking despite my increasingly larger and larger girth. It cost more than I wanted to spend but since it was the only suit I bought, it has been well worth it – I just mix up the shirts I wear underneath the suit and run it to the dry cleaners frequently.

A co-worker purchased several items from Isabella Oliver, reasoning that higher prices = better clothes. Not true! The fit was awkward and unflattering and we were both disappointed. She also tried Japanese Weekend and found some fantastic deals, with clothes that looked great.

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Anonymous February 2, 2009 at 8:06 pm

You can also find a great (a relative term) pair of black and/or grey slacks, a couple of maternity button front shirts and then wear your regular blazers or suit jackets unbuttoned. And during the earlier months, some of the current swing style jackets will even button.

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Anonymous February 2, 2009 at 8:22 pm

Check out a belly band http://www.ingridandisabel.com/bellaband.html. I wore my regular suit pants with dark belly bands until month 7. You can also wear your regular suit jackets, open, with a maternity button down, for the entire pregnancy. A great find for me was babystyle.com, which has a terrific maternity section with well-priced maternity work attire – particularly in their online outlet.

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Minnesota woman lawyer February 10, 2010 at 2:46 pm

I second the babystyle recommendation! They even have some pants in petite – while my stomach grew, my inseam did not… Consignment shops that carry maternity are also a good source for better-quality clothes, or recently-pregnant friends. No one wears out their maternity clothes, and they are often happy to share (and get rid of them).

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Anonymous October 24, 2011 at 10:07 pm

I know this is an old post but check out suitsyourbelly.com
Finally a business suit you can wear throughout your entire pregnancy and look and feel good about

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Brandy February 2, 2009 at 9:18 pm

I got great maternity wear from jcpenney.com. Don’t forget to check the outlet section. I got a jacket and dress shirts for a few dollars apiece (needed them for interviews). Pretty nice quality. Old Navy was my other go to, but avoid the cheap t-shirts.

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B February 2, 2009 at 10:07 pm

I just did this a few months ago. Ann Taylor does decent maternity suits as well, and I got a great deal a standard black one. Thankfully, I didn’t have to spend much time in court, though I did have to do my bar interview and get sworn in. I agree with Motherhood often looking cheap. A lot of their suit pants fit really funny: like a suit bought in the Juniors’ department. A much better move is getting stuff from Mimi Maternity or Pea in the Pod on sale. But, fair warning: all three (Motherhood, Pea in the Pod and Mimi) have terrible return policies: 10 days for regular priced stuff, and all sales final, no returns or exchanges on anything on sale.

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Anonymous February 2, 2009 at 10:16 pm

When I was pregnant I got clothes from Gap (their maternity is better quality then their regular clothes), Mimi Maternity, Motherhood, and a few things from Pea in the Pod. Ann Taylor Loft now has maternity too. I didn’t really care for the fit at Old Navy, quality was mediocre, and nothing was dressy. My suit came from Mimi, but Pea in the Pod and ATL have good options too. Motherhood quality is hit or miss, but I got some good (cheap) shirts for under my suit and for business casual.

Babystyle looks nice but I haven’t bought from there. http://www.duematernity.com is nice too.

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Stephanie February 2, 2009 at 10:18 pm

Ebay. Ebay. Ebay.

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Anonymous February 2, 2009 at 10:46 pm

Unfortunately AT Loft discontinued their maternity line, and Babystyle has gone out of business (that’s a huge loss). I could never find a thing in Motherhood when I was pregnant – their clothes are even cheaper looking than Old Navy. Maternity clothes are gross in general. ;-)

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Anonymous February 3, 2009 at 10:31 am

I was fortunate to not have to buy a maternity suit during my pregnancy. I work in biglaw – not NY – and was PG during the summer, so I was able to get away with a more casual style than I was used to. I held out on buying a suit, but then never needed to. If I had to buy, I would have gone to Pea in the Pod. I liked Motherhood Maternity because the clothes were cheaper, but some things just looked cheap. It was hit or miss. Mimi Maternity was good, but don’t buy their line “same size as you were before you were PG.” Bull Sh!t! Most women I know who get pregnant actuall have an a$$. Anyway, Mimi had nice things, but maternity shirts for more than I pay at Brooks Brothers? No thanks.

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Leslie February 3, 2009 at 1:33 pm

Beware of unreasonable return policies! Many of these stores will not accept any returns, even a day later. It’s incredibly frustrating.

Also, I had a terrible time with everything looking way too low. During pregnancy, my chest got huge, and every V-necked top made me look like a prostitute.

JC Penney was surprisingly awesome for basics and tent dresses. I ended up dry cleaning a bunch of the things I got, though, so the cheap fabric wouldn’t fade. Also, size 2XL stuff — especially tops — from Marshalls and Ross were pretty useful as maternity wear, though now I wouldn’t be caught dead in them.

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Anonymous February 3, 2009 at 1:41 pm

JCPenney. (store & catalog) I normally wouldn’t shop there for clothes, but I found most the stores too casual for my law firm dress code. appropriate items.

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Lisa Jacobs February 3, 2009 at 2:07 pm

I bought some cool things from Picchu Maternity. The fit and quality is better than Isabella Oliver although the clothes I had from them were second hand bought on Ebay so may have washed badly or may not been looked after. The Picchu things were great although a little pricey. They washed nicely and kept their shape and colour.
Pea in the Pod do great pants and jeans.

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empirecookie February 3, 2009 at 4:35 pm

Not an issue in canada – lawyers wear robes in court so all you need are some expanding black pants or skirts – no problem!

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Anonymous February 3, 2009 at 6:31 pm

I recently found a great maternity suit at picklesandicecream.com – priced reasonably (under $250 for a jacket and skirt) and fit better than anything I had tried. They have great business casual stuff as well.

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mj February 3, 2009 at 11:38 pm

So…not sure where you all practice, but in CA, dresses are appropriate court attire. Dresses are really the best way to go for maternity wear…Much more flattering. Suits are generally made to be well-tailored and body-skimming, hence the difficulty in finding suits which can take you through such a body-changing experience. DRESSES. Much better.

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Anonymous February 4, 2009 at 12:36 am

I agree with the comment about wearing your own jacket and leaving it unbuttoned. I did this paired with nice black pants from Liz Lange Maternity. When those didn’t fit towards I wore Ann Taylor Loft black dress and sweater and dressed down a bit. I was lucky since I did administrative law hearings. Dresses are a good call towards the end!

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Res Ipsa February 4, 2009 at 11:05 am

Anonymous 1 & 2: Can you get away with not buttoning your jacket in court? I’ve seen lawyers called out by judges for appearing an unbuttoned jacket.

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E January 3, 2010 at 1:38 pm

If you’re really pregnant I have a feeling you get a little bit of leeway; I am a surgeon and was down to cycling three pairs of maternity pants in my three day a week clinic and a variety of relatively casual maternity tops. With a white coat on top, nobody said a word. In retrospect I would have probably burst into tears or bit their head off, depending on the moment, so it was wise on their part!!

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Christine April 24, 2012 at 10:52 pm

I don’t think any judge is going to chastise an obviously pregnant woman about this. Would definitely be possible to get scolded before you are obviously showing, though, depending on county/judge.

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carissa February 4, 2009 at 12:02 pm

For my last three children, Maternity Profile (http://maternityprofile.com) was very helpful.

Liz Lange is nice, as is Japanese Weekend, but my favorite brand is Olian, a Miami based manufacturer.

I do vote for friends and ebay. By the time I was PG with number four, I only laid down dollars for items I could alter after PG, mostly tops. I looked for pants super cheap.

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TallTexGrl February 10, 2010 at 2:47 pm

I have to throw in Sears. I did lots of Gap, Old Navy, and one basic navy suit from Pea in the Pod. Of all my maternity clothes that I have given away, I am hanging on to the suit just in case. But, my mother kept bringing me things from Sears, and I wore a ton of that for work, including pant/shirt combos which were so comfortable and work appropriate. Also, I picked up a pair of maternity hosiery, and I wore them all the time. I loved having the extra support for the weight, and kept panty-line issues at a minimum since I hated wearing thong-type panties while pregnant.

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Midori February 10, 2010 at 3:22 pm

I’ve pulled off a loose-fitting dress, a string of pearls, and a non-maternity suit jacket in a contrasting color for a pretty convincing business look. People give you a break when you’re visibly sporting a baby.

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dclaw February 12, 2010 at 8:45 am

JC Penney is fabulous for those of us who were plus size (14+) before we got pregnant. It’s virtually the ONLY place I could find plus-size professional maternity wear. Gap and Old Navy carry the sizes, but are too casual for court.

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Amy February 14, 2010 at 1:18 am

I was in a fairly conservative job when I was pregnant (5 years ago now) and I got a few things from Motherhood maternity, including a dress, that worked very well.

People start buying maternity way too early in a first pregnancy – I know I did. I could have gotten by just fine with stretchier pants until I was probably 5 months along. The one thing nobody tells you about maternity clothes is how sick of them you get by the end. Also, everyone I know has gotten so big by the last month that they needed a couple of things at the very end to make it through to giving birth. It’s amazing – around 34-35 weeks you think “I have to be as big as I’m going to get” and nope.

One other tip for women who are giving birth in summer – take it easy on the polyester. I delivered July 31, I live in the Southwest, and by the end, synthetic fabrics made me feel like I was suffocating. Which is too bad, because a LOT of maternity is synthetic.

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Lisa February 15, 2010 at 12:51 pm

I just had a baby in October. The comment above about maternity wear consisting of a lot of spandex/polyester is true.. but it’s b/c unless you’re going to buy new sizes every few weeks, you need your clothes to stretch/grow a bit. A Pea in the Pod was the only lineI could find where the suits had a reasonably good fit and the material didn’t look overly cheap. The material that the Motherhood suits were made from actually LOOKED cheap (it shined) and the cut was not good.

I’m petite (about 5ft 3in).. and maternity suit jackets are hard to make work. I found that even the Pea in the Pod jackets were like a tent until I was about 7 months along. I found it easier to look professional by using my old (pre-maternity) suit jackets and pairing them with maternity pants/skirts/dresses. At Motherhood, you can get a lot of simple office dresses/shifts that are forgiving and can work for the office with a cartigan thrown over (or a jacket for court).

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Bun is Done... February 15, 2010 at 10:15 pm

So now that I have given birth, and am pumping at work several times a day, where are good, reasonably priced nursing tops to be had? Extra points for ones that don’t make me still look pregnant, but still have extra room in the bust.

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Tessa May 21, 2010 at 2:26 pm

Hi

I am looking for nice professional wear also. i have noted all the sites mentioned but i am trying to get on to babystyle but it is telling me that it does not exist so if someone can send me the link then i would really appreciate it.

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nina December 5, 2011 at 2:03 pm

I found a lots of very nice maternity business clothes at http://www.prelegant.com . I bought a suit their from Slack’s and co and I am very happy with it. The price is high, but the quality is excellent and the design is very fashion and professional at the same time.

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SaraB April 29, 2012 at 1:04 pm

I haven’t tried it yet but there’s quite a few sites online where you can rent maternity clothes. So you could get new suits every few months. Prices are not too bad.

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